What It's Like to Have Sex Post-op?
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- The results of SRS are made immediately obvious to the postop
woman by one important effect: She now has to "sit down to pee". Peeing isn't
as easy as before, and every time you pee you are reminded that
you are now a girl, reminded in the same way that all the other
girls are.
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- A lot of men have problems with getting
erections simply because they have to constantly avoid having
erections. In other words, they get much more practice in avoiding
erections than they do in getting them! Women do not need to
"censor" their arousals in that way. If they have no
religious or other types of hang-ups about sex and lovemaking,
they can easily practice and enjoy getting aroused as much as
they like, and can develop very healthy libidos as a result.
This advantage can help the postop woman get into her sexuality
fairly quickly and help her learn a lot in just the first year
or two postop.
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- Once she begins experiencing arousals and engaging in sexual
activities, one major thing becomes immediately obvious. Orgasm
feels really different as a woman. It may not be quite as easy
to achieve and may take longer to achieve, but it can be a much
more powerful sensation than any she ever experienced before
as a boy.
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- Following SRS, the perfunctory feeling of male ejaculation
during orgasm is gone forever. Instead, you can build up your
sexual arousal to a much higher level without ejaculation bringing
things to a halt. It may take more time to reach it, but you
can now experience a more powerful orgasm - with the old male
ejaculation feeling now replaced by an intense neural discharge
and spasm throughout the entire genital area during orgasm. It
feels kind of like you are being gently stimulated with electricity
inside and throughout your entire genital region. The experience
can vary a lot from orgasm to orgasm in the way in which the
"neural halo and spasmodic colors" of the orgasm develop,
spread, and feel. It seems almost as if most men so easily and
quickly reach ejaculation that they never manage to get "high
enough" sexually to trigger this more powerful form of orgasm.
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- In addition, there are real differences in "body feelings"
during lovemaking between the male and female experience (although
many of these feelings will be "female" in form for
preop TS women too). Most males are usually stimulated visually
by their partner's body-appearance. Once aroused, they usually
feel a growing "tightness inside" and a desire to "grab
and hold and thrust and penetrate". This desire comes on
suddenly, and quickly becomes quite overpowering, with most of
the sexual sensations coming only from within the penis itself.
However, when the release of orgasm occurs, it is usually much
more perfunctory than for a woman, being accompanied by a few
spurts of semen and a few grunts and that's it. The ejaculation
is then followed by quite a sudden letdown and loss of any interest
in sexual activity.
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- The sexual experience for the postop woman is much more "internal"
within and throughout her whole body than for a male. The arousal
may start in her genitals, but then can spread all through her
lower body, especially inside the muscles, and her skin all over her body becomes more
sensitized to caressing and touching. Instead of sexual arousal
being just in the genitals as in a male, the estrogen seems to
also enable a powerful "heat" to fill the woman's whole
body once she is aroused - and especially once she is being penetrated.
Having this heat come over her in the absence of a partner, and
without any satisfaction, can make her feel like "climbing
the walls" or "thrashing around in her bed".
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- Since her whole body becomes much more sensitive to touch
as she get fully aroused, she is not stimulated so much by her
partner's appearance as by the way he (or she) touches her and
manipulates her body and the way his (or her) voice sounds. She
doesn't feel the hard focused drive to quickly achieve orgasm as do males, but instead feels a desire to let go and thrash
around and be "handled" and gradually heighten her
erotic feelings. It isn't what she is seeing that counts as much
as what she is feeling and hearing and how her body is being
manipulated by her partner, as she yields to the wonders of sexual
heat and lovemaking. And usually she'll like to take some time
to do this and enjoy this, instead of just "rushing for
ejaculation" like most guys do.
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- Finally, she will get up on a "plateau" and realize
that an orgasm is going to come. This is a truly wonderful feeling.
At some point, the orgasm starts and spreads throughout her genital area,
with the genital nerves becoming tremendously sensitized as it
spreads. The sensation of the orgasm will vary a lot from orgasm to orgasm
(more variably than in the male). Sometimes it will be weak, but sometimes
it can be amazingly intense,
and the feeling varies a lot in form and "color" from orgasm
to orgasm.
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- Just like natal women, trans women often experience a strong urge to "vocalize"
just before and during orgasm - moaning, squealing, screaming
and making other loud noises while they come. The sound and internal
body sensation of these vocalizations can greatly heighten the
intensity of the orgasmic experience for many women. Postop women
shouldn't be afraid to let out loud moans or screams when they
come. It is perfectly natural, and can help transform ordinary
orgasms into ecstatic ones. In contrast, very few men vocalize
when they ejaculate, other than making a few grunts. Perhaps
the difference is hormonal, with testosterone blocking these
emotional vocalizations, just as it blocks emotions such as "crying"
in males.
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- After climax the trans woman feels a sudden relaxing and calming
effect that is somewhat similar to what it is like for boys. But unlike when she was
a boy, she may often feel aroused and sexy again rather soon
after having sex, often getting firm internal erections again soon after her
orgasms. Even though it
may be difficult for her to achieve orgasm again until some time
has passed (a few hours to a day or so), she may feel a desire for sex again
right away anyways. These re-arousals are a really wonderful
feeling, and can enable sweet sessions of touching and snuggling
with a loving partner after intercourse.
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