This email was written by an unusual mother. I view it as pure fantasy.
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I am a pregnant with a son. However, I really want it have a girl. So I've been doing research, and it looks like I could feminize him to be similar to a girl. It appears as if feminizing boys is actually a good thing. I am not completely sure of this, which is why I am sending you this email.
I only want what's best for my son. But while feminine men are not women, I find that feminine men are more pleasant to be around. They have better hygiene; smell better; are more civilized; have more class; and they are less prone to violence and aggression. They make better husbands because they are men that women can relate to, and they have a better fashion sense, which makes them a better choice for women.
Let’s face it, there was a time when the masculinity in men was needed for the benefit of the community. But now, in the 21st Century, with the technology we have, it’s not as useful for a man to strive to be masculine. In fact, in today’s world, the problems men have outweigh their benefits. I have been doing research about parents feminizing their sons. Many have done so with positive results. This is why I'm considering feminizing him as much as I can by raising him to be just like Mommy’s little girl.
Feminists are suggesting we should raise our sons the same way we would raise them if they were daughters. Since you are both a feminist and a sexologist, I thought you might be a good person to talk to about this. I have already chosen a unisex name, Addison, for him. If I go forward with this, I will start by buying girl clothes, girl toys, and girl bedding for him.
I’d rather he grow up to be a “sissy” than one of those men who get thrown into prison for violent acts. So I want to feminize him. Also, research indicates that feminized sons have better bonds with their mothers. They like to do things with their mothers. They are more affectionate. They are more docile and friendly. They are more civilized. They are more hygienic. They sit down to urinate, which means no piss all over the toilet and on the floor around it. They are less wild, which makes them easier to manage. They are better behaved than boys who are not feminine. They are less likely to get into fights with other kids. They are less likely to become trouble makers like some boys are. They are less likely to become sexual, which means less likely to become engaged in affairs and less likely to masturbate due to disregard for their penises. It’s also been shown that feminized boys tend to do better in school than their more masculine counterparts.
One thing that concerns me about feminizing him is, if someone were to first meet him, would they think he is a girl? I found the following on a website.
"Some Mothers and other women ask the Question...How do I get my guys to be more Feminine? Their Reasons could be numerous....an Abusive husband, an Unruly Male Child, Unchecked "Macho" Behaviours from their Testosterone. Whatever. As a man that has always been Feminine Oriented, I was more into Feminizing myself, but it sure would have been Nice to have someone Encourage me and Guide me on the Road to Femininity!
A Friend of mine sent me the following E-mail, and asked me to publish it on the Blog. It deals with the Subject of How to Feminize a Male. You might Agree with what he says....you might Disagree. The Purpose of this Forum is to bring different Perspectives on the Trends of Male Femininity and Empowerment of Women....Not All Agree, but different Perspectives are Welcomed and Encouraged. I hope you enjoy the Posting from Tony!
I would like to write an article for your blog Titled how to steer your boy down the feminization trail. and ways to demale your son. Demale techniques If you are like many single moms thinking about feminizing your SON or sons, there are many things to consider. Have you been fanning his macho boy ego?? Have you bought him gender specific toys and games? If so it is time to put that to an end. Proper and effective feminization has to move along sort of gradually, unless you are one of the 'Radical Feminists" who have a secret network and can do some very special things with their highly trained girls, to help take out a boys "special boy makers" and leave him no choice but to become a girl. [but that is in radical instances.]
Most normal moms need to look at how their boys are dressed. You can't just get up one day and say, "Randy you are wearing panties today" or no more soccer for you boy, now it is Cheerleading for you. If that was done more boys would be running to the local police or school nurses and complaining of abuse.
Things that moms need to start doing.
Wardrobe changes like slowly bleach shrink and destroy any shirts that have Male or Macho Ego themed brands . No more Nike Adidas, Vans dc shoes Osiris, and generally skater type shirts. Sneakers as well need to be made more unisex. stay away from blue and boy orientated colors. Some of our moms , love to secretly "cook' their boys expensive brand name sneaks in the microwave for a few minutes to make them fall apart when he is wearing them. so then they have a reason for buying him cheap unisex converse all star sneakers or Wall-mart or K-Mart specials.
As if it is 'his' fault for not taking care of his stuff, you will have done wonders to lower his male self esteem and ego. The cheaper and more ugly the sneakers the better. Most of our Demale Society mothers love converse because they can point out in a mall "hey look that girl has the same shoes, they look good on you too. *See how we slowly assimilate the boy to a more feminine outlook? His brand name macho shirts are replaced with more pastel and softer colors. Name brand jeans fade into sweat pants and slacks. As for video games, keep them as non violent as possible. Do not give in to sports titles, fighting games ww2 shooters. as they fan the boys violence. More girl or female orientated games like Tomb Raider, resident evil has z great girl character if you want to let him play some violent game .
Chores: you must insist your boy do and complete chores. Do not let him feel and act like a little prince.
Sports: Most boys love or try sports. While the exercise is a good thing the male bonding is a no no. They do not need strong male role models ,and macho friends if you want a real sissy boy to blossom. Try again "secret' destruction ' maneuvers. If you have a macho skater boy, mess up his skate board, so it falls apart, and looks like he abused it. Baseball gloves go missing, bats break, football equipment dry rots or shrinks.. and can all be made to seem like it is HIS fault.
And when he is bad ground him from sports. Do not let him play if he is bad. But if you have an over sported brat and you want him to become a sissy cheerleader.. you must get him started on male hormone blockers and female hormones.. as young as 9, is ok as the female hormones will stunt his growth and make him more lady like in appearance, and the male hormone blockers will not allow his muscles to get strong like other boys , make him slower and more calm and eventually quit sports, which at that point, you suggest more lady like activities. We use a vitamin replacement trick, putting androcour in a vitamin b12 bottle and female hormones in a vitamin c bottle. They work wonders.
If any moms need dosage help or instructions , our resident friend and feminist leader, Dr Lucy, will help you. The results of a boy taking this special formula is what more moms need to do and try it is a must. Feminized Men Make the Best Husbands! Women that Take Control of their Relationships with Men and Boys, and Encourage Male Femininity are the Pioneers of the Future!"
