Observations About Transvestites

INTRODUCTION

This primer is about the sex-lives of transvestites. 

A transvestite may be characterized as being sexually schizophrenic, i.e., has two views about his sexual drive and identity. His libido houses an aggressive male attitude about sex, but also a passive female attitude. 

A transvestite is continuously conflicted about his sexual feelings. Often a transvestite will manifest heterosexual feelings when he is with a woman, and completely opposite passive feelings when he is with a man. 

Stage 1 - FANTASY

It is commonly believed that men fantasize more than women. Occasionally people will extend their fantasies to their real lives. The reality can work out okay or can ruin lives. For transvestites, their fantasies are about being women; living their lived as females. 

2 - COMPULSION

Sometimes a transvestite will consider himself ready to go out in public before he has learned how to pass. It is a compulsion - the need for acceptance of him for what he is. The lines are blurred and he may become upset when people do not accept him as readily as he thinks they should.

He begins by going out for walks at night. Then it will gravitate to going for drives. When he arrives home safe and sound, he feels a great sense of elation at having faced the World in his female persona. This elation often leads to masturbation.

3 - MASTURBATION

Most transvestites attempt to transform themselves into their perception of an attractive sexy woman. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. Either way, they are usually content with how they look in the mirror.

Sexual relief usually comes in the form of masturbation while admiring themselves in the mirror. While masturbating, they fantasize about having been born a real woman and the fun they could have by being made love to by men. 

In many cases, masturbation is the extent of their sexual activity. They either wish it won't go further, or they don't know how. It is a lonely existence. Many transvestites book into hotel rooms so that they can put on their outfits and achieve climax through masturbation.

4 - ORAL SEX

Some transvestites will muster the courage to go out in public. Usually this will be a gay pub, where he feels he will be accepted. He will then make friends with gays and bisexuals, and sooner or later he will end up alone with a man. 

When he is with a man, some form of sex will occur. Initially, the transvestite will not want to be the recipient of anal sex - no matter how much he has fantasized about it. He will want his first sexual experience in his female persona to be restricted to oral sex. The person he is with will usually be patient, and not insist on fucking him. The two will then engage in mutual fondling which after a while will result in the transvestite sucking the man's cock.

First attempts at oral sex will usually continue for some time. When the man is ready to climax, he will either pull out and cum on his face, or he will ejaculate in transvestite's mouth. If it is the first cock he has sucked, the transvestite will find the taste of semen hard to swallow, and will spit it out. After a while, he will develop a taste for it. 

The act of sucking a man's cock appeals to the passive, submissive nature of a transvestite. Normally, he will kneel at the man's feet and allow the man to place his cock in his mouth. Once a transvestite has sucked his first cock, he won't be able to get enough. He will do everything he can to be able to perform oral sex on men as often as possible. For some transvestites this will be enough; they won't want to take sexual matters any further. It will be sufficient to satisfy their need for role-fulfillment.

5 - PENETRATIVE SEX

Many transvestites do not stop at oral sex. They want to experience, and be the recipient of, penetrative sex. It is common for transvestites to give this a great deal of thought. The question of health arises as well as the matter of pain that anal sex causes. Most transvestites will have experimented on themselves and they will be aware of the painfulness of anal penetration. In the end, the need to experience submissive sex will triumph.

Sometimes they will try-out anal sex with another transvestite, or will with a man. After the first few experiences, they will want to do with ordinary men. There are no shortage of men who want to fuck transvestites, and so before long they will find themselves able to have penetrative sex with a number of men. To many transvestites, this is role-fulfillment. For some, it is not enough. They will choose to go the whole route - seeking gender reassignment surgery.

6 - BEYOND PENETRATIVE SEX

In some cases, oral and penetrative sex are not enough. It will not fully satisfy their submissiveness and need to be dominated by men. These will actively seek-out men for whom rough-sex is their preference. Many men like to have sex with transvestites because they can do anything to them - things that real women wouldn't allow. This includes whipping and using them as toilets. Men like this get off on this sort of thing.

Transvestite prostitutes are rarely surprised at anger many men feel. Many men are unhappy in their marriages. Although most men just want oral sex or a fuck, some want to beat the transvestite until they achieved an erection, and then fuck them as forcibly as they can.

CONCLUSION

As may be seen from above, a transvestite's sex-life is more than a little complicated. It is further complicated by the indisputable fact that most transvestites - unless they are homosexual - don't like the physical sexual side of their lives. It does nothing for them physically - many don't achieve erections when they are being used by men for sex. It does a mental thing - it fulfills their perception of their passive female side. It is simply role-fulfillment.