Stage 1
Shave legs, wax his bikini line. He needs to understand all the things we girls go through. Ideally make him also shave his balls, cock, and all his pubes. Keeping smooth for you should be a daily task for him. I love waxing men’s bottoms and back. Nothing like running your hand over his nice smooth form bottom.
Once you have him starting to dress, take him shopping for his own clothes. If he is a suit man, get him to buy skirt suits, maybe, and only maybe allow him a nice trouser suit so long as its very feminine. The purpose of him buying his own girlie clothes is to reinforce physiologically that these are his. Let him choose them, but of course steer him in the right direction.
Don’t forget to reward him for doing these things for you. Give him sex as a reward. Training a guy is as simple as training a dog. Find out what he needs (usually sex) and then use that as a reward.
One great thing to do for both his training and your reward is as follows:-
Have some great sex. Tell him it is his reward for being good. But make him promise to finish you off your way for a change. You might want to tie him up the first time. One great way is to make sure he is laying on his back so you can sit on him and ride him. Let him cum deep inside you and fill you up. Then sit on his face. Yes, that’s right sit on his face and make him lick you. If he doesn’t start licking immediately grind yourself against him. He soon will get the message. Make him lick you until you cum again. Secretly he will have always wanted to do this. The thought of eating his own cum out of you will reward him and also reinforce your dominance. After a while you should be able to get him to do it without asking. If he doesn’t or protests tell him no more sex unless he does. He will soon be lapping it all up.
Don’t just lie there and wait for it to dribble out so you get the wet spot, or run to the toilet to let it drain out. Make your man clean up his own mess. After all he expects you to suck him and swallow it all, so why shouldn’t he do it too.
Stage 2
Strap on dildos and toys. I bet your man is always wanting you to use toys? Does he always want to have anal sex? Most guys have this thing about anal. They think it’s so great. This stems from their own desires to try it. So, I say why not, let them try it.
Next time your man tries to have anal sex, stop him and make him promise that you can return the favor, or better still do it to him first! This is where the great strap on dildo comes in (or if not a suitable vibrator or other toy).
The strap on is best. You might want to tie him up for the first time again. Best way is to get him on all fours (the same way he likes to do you) Tie his hands in front of him and maybe his legs to the end of the bed so he can’t escape. You might need to prop him up on pillows too. Sounds familiar ?
Next use lots of lubrication. He is going to be tight (just like you were) and remember be gentle (just like he was!). The first time go very slow and just work the tip in and out, each time sliding in a little deeper. It won’t take long before you can gently push the whole dildo inside. Resist the urge to start pumping it just yet. Let it slide all the way and just stay there for a while. Rub his back and bottom, maybe spank him gently (like he does you). Then hold his hips and slowly start to pump it. Just little pumps to start with. Work it gently and slowly and you will soon find that you can pull almost all the way out and then push slowly back in again. Once you get to this stage, increase the speed a little but not too fast or hard. The first session should be maybe no more than 5 mins pumping gently. Don’t be surprised if he cums by accident as he will love it. Try to make sure he doesn’t, but sometimes he will lose control.
After you have finished with him, then if you promised he could do you, you must fulfil your promise. If you promised something else or you let him do you first, then make sure you whatever you promised him you keep to. Remember we want this to be a long-term thing for him.
If you do it right, you can make every sex session into him getting it first. If you buy the right sort of strap on dildo, you will get immense pleasure from doing him. Some girls find that they cum more when doing it to him, than they do when he does them.
Sometimes you might just want to do him and not let him do you. I just find it so good for stress relief. I have a strap on dildo that is double ended and has a clit simulator on it to. When I come back from work stressed, I strap this on and give my man a good session. By the time I am done with him I am de stressed. If he is lucky I then let him have a go with me, but often I just let him stew for a bit or give him a quick blow job.
Once you have trained him with the strap on and other toys (I make him wear love balls a lot of the time) They drive him wild and keep him horny (they drive me wild too, so I often wear them), you have established your dominance almost fully.
You now have him dressing in what you want him to wear, you have sex your way and when you want it. You will be the dominant sexual partner, and rightfully get the pleasure you want.
He will now have an interest in coming shopping with you. You can shop together for shoes, clothes and undies. He will appreciate this seasons fashions and what colors go (hopefully), and will understand that perhaps stiletto heels although sexy are not the best type of shoes for all occasions.
He will also understand why you choose the color and style of underwear you do and not always the most colorful sexy, lacy thing you can find. He will know that boring cotton panties are more comfy than the skimpy lacy g string he likes. He will appreciate the difference between tights and stockings and their benefits to him.
He will also now appreciate the issues of waxing, shaving, make up, and will understand just how long it takes to get ready to go out.
With this new-found understanding comes a willingness to also please you in other ways. Round the house he will be more willing to clean up, and do housework. Reward him in ways that best suit his duties, but very soon you could have a fully trained house maid too.
Imagine, a clean and tidy house, and a guy that gives you sex your way whenever you want it, and who appreciates all your needs. A fun partner to share shopping trips with and who is enthusiastic about your desires, yet to outward appearance when he is at work or with his friends he is just a regular guy.
What a perfect time you could have.
It might not be easy to get every guy to this stage, and some will just not work out that way. However, it is worth trying some or all these ideas.
Step 3
This is for the girl who wants to take the whole thing to a much higher level.
We have gone through the basics, and now you have a guy who is just as happy (if not more so) dressed as a girl, feminized in his everyday life and dominated in sex. This might be perfect for some, but others of you out there might want to go further.
All the areas of stages 1 and 2 can be reversed or stopped, but stage 3 is difficult to stop or revere once it starts.
Estrogen and progesterone supplements. These will help him develop more feminine features and characteristics. It is only recommended you use these if this is something you want him to have. If this is what you desire then you can either add them to his food without him knowing or make him take them with his knowledge.
These will help him lose body hair, and get a more feminine figure. However, they may have an adverse effect on his penis and balls. He might find it harder to get an erection. This might be great if you are just into doing him with your strap on, but if you do like him giving you a good session then you may be disappointed. It is not always the case, and by no means does it stop him having sex.
The other area you could go for is minor cosmetic surgery. If you/he is brave enough, go for very small breast implants. Just enough to give him maybe an A cup (unless he is willing to go for something bigger). This size is just hard enough for him to hide, yet just big enough to let him show them off when he wants. Personally, I would prefer a full B or even C cup, but depending on his job this might be difficult.
