Q&A Session on Becoming a Girl

A Q&A session you will enjoy. Quite nice. [Modified slightly]

From: http://katiesissygirl.tumblr.com/

Hey, Katie, it is a pleasure meeting You, thank You for Your time! 

Q1: So, if You recall, when was the first time in Your life life You realized "this excites me"? 

Q2: Care to share a little bit about Your kink? what excites You most and what not so much?

Q3: How do you feel about boys?

Q4: What event in Your life would You name to be the that one. I mean, what made You into who You are today? (note: i say not in disgracefull, but in rather proud way) 

A1. I was in 7th grade and I found that I was looking at the other girls’ clothes just as much as I was looking at the girls. I saw a girl in a denim mini skirt and colorful tights and it wasn’t long before I wondered what it would feel like to wear them. I don’t know if I thought it would make me feel closer to the girls or if I really wanted to feel girly. But once I tried on my first chunky sweater, skirt, and tights, I loved how it felt.

A2. I like to dress up and feel like a woman. I like to experience dressing like all kinds of women. I like to dress like a real school girl with a cardigan, a peter pan blouse, knee length plaid skirt, tights and loafers.

Other days I like to dress as a slutty school girl with button up blouse tied at the waist, very short plaid skirt, thigh high socks, and high heel mary janes. I like to dress as a lolita. I like to dress as a cheerleader. 

I like to dress as a professional woman going to work with a nice dress or a basic silk blouse, skirt and pantyhose. I like to dress in yoga pants and a sports bra with a loose sweatshirt. When I had a bit of a belly, I even tried maternity clothes. I love it all. If I’m feeling horny, I’ll dress sexy and play with toys. If I’m not, I love to dress and watch TV or sit at my desk with my legs crossed. I like to feel feminine. If there’s anything I’m not into, it’s bondage and since I (probably incorrectly) associate PVC and latex with that, I stay away from those too.

A3: When I am a girl, I like boys who look at me in a certain way. I can tell when they like me. It makes me feel feminine. I also want some boys to ask me out. Most of all, I dream about boys dancing with me and kissing me passionately.

A4. The first time I shaved my body was the point of no return. I get my legs waxed now but there’s nothing like feeling smooth legs for the first time. Having sheer stockings on them and looking down to see shiny feminine legs attached to your own body. Can’t beat it.

Email to a Doctor - How to Feminize My Son

This email was written by an unusual mother. I view it as pure fantasy.

Email to a doctor

I am a pregnant with a son. However, I really want it have a girl. So I've been doing research, and it looks like I could feminize him to be similar to a girl. It appears as if feminizing boys is actually a good thing. I am not completely sure of this, which is why I am sending you this email.

I only want what's best for my son. But while feminine men are not women, I find that feminine men are more pleasant to be around. They have better hygiene; smell better; are more civilized; have more class; and they are less prone to violence and aggression. They make better husbands because they are men that women can relate to, and they have a better fashion sense, which makes them a better choice for women.

Let’s face it, there was a time when the masculinity in men was needed for the benefit of the community. But now, in the 21st Century, with the technology we have, it’s not as useful for a man to strive to be masculine. In fact, in today’s world, the problems men have outweigh their benefits. I have been doing research about parents feminizing their sons. Many have done so with positive results. This is why I'm considering feminizing him as much as I can by raising him to be just like Mommy’s little girl.

Feminists are suggesting we should raise our sons the same way we would raise them if they were daughters. Since you are both a feminist and a sexologist, I thought you might be a good person to talk to about this. I have already chosen a unisex name, Addison, for him. If I go forward with this, I will start by buying girl clothes, girl toys, and girl bedding for him.

I’d rather he grow up to be a “sissy” than one of those men who get thrown into prison for violent acts. So I want to feminize him. Also, research indicates that feminized sons have better bonds with their mothers. They like to do things with their mothers. They are more affectionate. They are more docile and friendly. They are more civilized. They are more hygienic. They sit down to urinate, which means no piss all over the toilet and on the floor around it. They are less wild, which makes them easier to manage. They are better behaved than boys who are not feminine. They are less likely to get into fights with other kids. They are less likely to become trouble makers like some boys are. They are less likely to become sexual, which means less likely to become engaged in affairs and less likely to masturbate due to disregard for their penises. It’s also been shown that feminized boys tend to do better in school than their more masculine counterparts.

One thing that concerns me about feminizing him is, if someone were to first meet him, would they think he is a girl? I found the following on a website.

"Some Mothers and other women ask the Question...How do I get my guys to be more Feminine? Their Reasons could be numerous....an Abusive husband, an Unruly Male Child, Unchecked "Macho" Behaviours from their Testosterone. Whatever. As a man that has always been Feminine Oriented, I was more into Feminizing myself, but it sure would have been Nice to have someone Encourage me and Guide me on the Road to Femininity!

A Friend of mine sent me the following E-mail, and asked me to publish it on the Blog. It deals with the Subject of How to Feminize a Male. You might Agree with what he says....you might Disagree. The Purpose of this Forum is to bring different Perspectives on the Trends of Male Femininity and Empowerment of Women....Not All Agree, but different Perspectives are Welcomed and Encouraged. I hope you enjoy the Posting from Tony!

I would like to write an article for your blog Titled how to steer your boy down the feminization trail. and ways to demale your son. Demale techniques If you are like many single moms thinking about feminizing your SON or sons, there are many things to consider. Have you been fanning his macho boy ego?? Have you bought him gender specific toys and games? If so it is time to put that to an end. Proper and effective feminization has to move along sort of gradually, unless you are one of the 'Radical Feminists" who have a secret network and can do some very special things with their highly trained girls, to help take out a boys "special boy makers" and leave him no choice but to become a girl. [but that is in radical instances.]

Most normal moms need to look at how their boys are dressed. You can't just get up one day and say, "Randy you are wearing panties today" or no more soccer for you boy, now it is Cheerleading for you. If that was done more boys would be running to the local police or school nurses and complaining of abuse.

Things that moms need to start doing.

Wardrobe changes like slowly bleach shrink and destroy any shirts that have Male or Macho Ego themed brands . No more Nike Adidas, Vans dc shoes Osiris, and generally skater type shirts. Sneakers as well need to be made more unisex. stay away from blue and boy orientated colors. Some of our moms , love to secretly "cook' their boys expensive brand name sneaks in the microwave for a few minutes to make them fall apart when he is wearing them. so then they have a reason for buying him cheap unisex converse all star sneakers or Wall-mart or K-Mart specials.

As if it is 'his' fault for not taking care of his stuff, you will have done wonders to lower his male self esteem and ego. The cheaper and more ugly the sneakers the better. Most of our Demale Society mothers love converse because they can point out in a mall "hey look that girl has the same shoes, they look good on you too. *See how we slowly assimilate the boy to a more feminine outlook? His brand name macho shirts are replaced with more pastel and softer colors. Name brand jeans fade into sweat pants and slacks. As for video games, keep them as non violent as possible. Do not give in to sports titles, fighting games ww2 shooters. as they fan the boys violence. More girl or female orientated games like Tomb Raider, resident evil has z great girl character if you want to let him play some violent game .

Chores: you must insist your boy do and complete chores. Do not let him feel and act like a little prince.

Sports: Most boys love or try sports. While the exercise is a good thing the male bonding is a no no. They do not need strong male role models ,and macho friends if you want a real sissy boy to blossom. Try again "secret' destruction ' maneuvers. If you have a macho skater boy, mess up his skate board, so it falls apart, and looks like he abused it. Baseball gloves go missing, bats break, football equipment dry rots or shrinks.. and can all be made to seem like it is HIS fault.

And when he is bad ground him from sports. Do not let him play if he is bad. But if you have an over sported brat and you want him to become a sissy cheerleader.. you must get him started on male hormone blockers and female hormones.. as young as 9, is ok as the female hormones will stunt his growth and make him more lady like in appearance, and the male hormone blockers will not allow his muscles to get strong like other boys , make him slower and more calm and eventually quit sports, which at that point, you suggest more lady like activities. We use a vitamin replacement trick, putting androcour in a vitamin b12 bottle and female hormones in a vitamin c bottle. They work wonders.

If any moms need dosage help or instructions , our resident friend and feminist leader, Dr Lucy, will help you. The results of a boy taking this special formula is what more moms need to do and try it is a must. Feminized Men Make the Best Husbands! Women that Take Control of their Relationships with Men and Boys, and Encourage Male Femininity are the Pioneers of the Future!"

Feminized Sons - 3 Stories

I found three nice stories about feminized sons. They appeared in Experience Project in the "Moms Feminizing Sons" topic.

I'm particularly intrigued by stories and life experiences where a feminized boy dates other boys. Why? Because it was my fondest desire when I started dating. 


#1: MY FIRST DATE
I once picked up a book called The Story of a Gentleman with a subheading One Man’s Tale of Homosexuality.

The book was biographical and told the story of a boy whose mother went about feminising her son. One time she caught him wearing one of her dresses when he was just entering his teenage years. She was a very possessive and jealous woman, rather than punish the boy for wearing her clothes, she encouraged him in his dressing as a girl, in the hope that this would discourage girls from taking an interest in him.

Although she didn’t want the boy to socialise with girls, she didn’t object to boys taking an interest in him. Some would even sleep over at the house where he lived, and sometimes they would take him out on dates.



I’ve often wondered what it would feel like to have been feminized by my Mom who would later see to it that boys would not only take an interest me, but would take me out on dates, while I was dressed as a girl. She would also make sure that the boy I was going out with knew that I was a boy and that he had to treat me as he would treat a real girl. He would be wearing a suit and shirt with a necktie, the necktie being the most multicultural of all phallic symbols, as it is representative of male genitalia. As I would be wearing either a skirt and blouse or dress I would not only be denied the phallic symbol of a tie, I would also look and be expected to feel distinctly feminine.

Unless I was wearing a full-length dress, my legs would be on view and this would draw a boy’s eyes to them. Even more so if I’m wearing a dress with one or two petticoats beneath it, which would have had a widening effect on the skirt of the dress, thus exposing more of my legs. My Mom would think that at 14, I would be too young to wear pantyhose and would have had me wear knee-length socks or ankle ones with lace at the top to make me look more feminine.

I very much doubt I would be wearing a dress with long sleeves, probably one with short puff ones or a sleeveless gown depending on what the occasion was. My gown may or may not have shoulder straps and because it is sleeveless my arms and upper chest would be exposed. There would be more of me exposed than that of my date as most of his body would be hidden underneath the jacket and trousers of the suit he’s wearing. He on the other hand has the luxury of pockets where he can not only keep his money and keys in, he can also put his hands in them if he wanted, whereas I would have to carry a purse for my things. And as this is my first date I wouldn’t know where to put my hands except in my partners when I’m dancing with him.

Quite often when I’m thinking of this scenario I get a funny feeling just below my belly button, a bit like butterflies in the tummy, I also get a bit light headed. Sadly I’ll never know what it would actually feel like to go out with a boy on a date. Perhaps that feeling of butterflies or light headedness is what it must be like for a girl out on her first date with a boy.

By: "deleted"

#2: My Mother And The Way She Help To My Feminization 
AUTHOR'S NOTE: I would like you to know that English is not my native language. I hope you can understand my writing, despite any misspellings or bad grammar. Thank you. [PS: I have made a few corrections to help the flow.]

My parents were divorced when I was about 3 years old. Since that age, I remember my dad used to visit us every weekend to go to the  park. My brother and I never were affected by our parents separation, since the only real change was now we only saw our dad a couple times a week instead of everyday.

My mother used to dress us in a very androgynous way. I didn't care about that. Sometimes when we were out with dad, other people, especially women, came close and said, "you have a beautiful daughter". For me it was normal. I was never aware about that until I grew up and saw pictures of us at that time. 

One time, my mother even put me in a very cute blue princess dress. But then our dad started to discuss with mom the way she dressed us. He bought us more boy's clothes. We dressed in those clothes. Mom seemed to understand that we shouldn't be wearing girl's clothes. My mother was raised in the middle of 7 girls, so she grew up on a very girly way. Perhaps that was the reason it was hard for her to raise boys.

After some time, when I was about 6 years old, mom got married again and suddenly we had a stepfather every day at the house guiding us on the way to be more boy-like. But I came to prefer doing girly stuff: play with our cousin's dolls and dresses, wear my mom's clothes and shoes, and practicing makeup and feminine manners when we were alone. My mom always defended me from our stepfather's scoldings, saying that even though I was his son, she had more rights about the way she raised me.

My little brother always knew I wanted to be a girl, but he was happier being a boy. No matter that my mom was not making us use girly/androgynous clothes, I still had the feeling she always treated me different than my brother. She didn't let me do the things boys are allowed to do. I was overprotected the way moms overprotect daughters and I noticed it was not the same way with my brother. He had a more boy-like aptitude and looked stronger than me. Later, she said I was very fragile and she was being protective for my own protection.

When I was teenager, I started to go out with my girl friends dressed like a girl. I loved to do it every time I could.  The day mom and our stepfather discovered that I had being going out to parties dressed like a girl with my friends, it was as if she always knew it and she was waiting to talk with me about that.

Our stepfather gave her some advice to try make me more "male", including cutting my hair, going into my closet and throwing out all my girly clothes. I went to a Psychiatrist and took anti-depression pills. They forced me to go to college and take an engineering degree even when they know my real passion was the arts.

As soon I was of legal age, I left home and started in art school. At the same time, I started to live full time as a girl. My mother was always worried about me, now more than ever, but over time, she let me grow up and become the woman I am today.

She eventually got divorced again and I usually visit her on weekends. We are still very close. We like to go shopping and do girly stuff together. In the end, she always knew that I was her daughter.

By: "tsecretgirl"

#3: Mommies And Their Boys 
...Ok..so what is it about mommies who love having femme sons..I'm 18 now and live at home with my mom. My Dad left when I was about 4 and has never come back. I have been raised with great love and affection and I live everyday as a girl, though I was born a boy.

All through my early childhood, I exhibited very femme traits. I liked being with girls and loved the way they looked. I can remember how much I wished I could be just like them.

I know now that mommie saw this in me and was waiting to see how it would develop. She kept my hair long...and I liked it...I loved having a ponytail. The clothes she bought me...especially in the summer, now seem to have been chosen to compliment my femme characteristics....my long hair, my nice legs...and as I got to age 9, my boy tits, which had become both noticable and prominent.....once, when we were shopping...she had me try on some very strappy gold open-back sandals..omg. They were so sexy....and she asked me if I liked them...and I blurted out... yes, I do...Well, she bought them for me...and in the car on the way home I put them on and mommie told me how nice I looked in them.

That same night, mommie asked me if I wanted to be a girl....I didnt know what to say. I started to cry and I remember mommie holding me and telling me it was ok to feel the way I felt...I told her that I liked being like her and she kissed me and told me that a lot of boys want to be like their mommies. I really didnt know what to think....but for some reason...I just felt so safe and secure in her arms and I told her over and over that I loved her...she held me tight and told me that I should have a bath...she told me to undress while she got the bath ready. I did what I was told.

The bath water was sooo warm...oh I remember feeling so great in the tub...mommie had changed and wore just a cami and panties and came in and began to wash me. I got on my knees and she washed my fanny and soaped and washed my dickie...it felt so nice...but i guess I just didnt know what to feel.

After my bath, she dressed me in a silk jersey and blue silk panties and I remember that the feeling of wearing panties was so intense that I just leaned on her and cried.

She brought me to a mirror in her bedroom and asked me if I liked what I saw....omg...i looked so much like a girl...I told her...yes, and she hugged me and she pressed her titties into me.

She asked me if the way I felt was the most natural way...and I said yes...it was the way I wanted to be.

By: "deleted"

Extreme Forced Feminization

This story is reportedly true. I first saw it on voy.com. It has been re-posted numerous times in various places. Part 1 appeared recently in http://malefemininitygenderrolereversal.blogspot.com/

Parts 2 and 3 are from voy.com.

The thread is about one husband's journey into forced womanhood by his very strong wife. I love this story and hope you do too. Edita, if indeed she is real, is amazing.

PART 1

Hello!

I am Edita from Holland. I am looking for other wifes who have similar experiences as I have...

I will tell my story in short. 10 years ago, I got married at the age of 23, my husband was 21. We were expecting a child, and decided it was better to get married.

I have always been interested in feminine males. My brother grew up as a sissy (he was the youngest and only boy among five children in the family). I don't remember him in pants...
 
After I got married, I very quickly secured the dominating position in our marriage. When my husband graduated from college, he was not able to find a job. I was successfully working in a computer company at that time. So we agreed that he would stay at home, taking care of the household and our daughter. Pretty much that was the time I decided to feminize my husband. I started out with female underwear, continued via a few "dressing games" until he accepted to wear female clothing only. I then had his body hair removed by laser treatment, had a few corrective cosmetic surgeries, etc. In 2006 I had him started on hormones. Since 2007 (due to the hormones he could not "perform" as a male anymore) he lives completely as a woman.

To make a long story short, over the past 8 years, my husband has become a real woman, he had breast augmentation in 2007 and he completed his journey into womanhood by having his Reassignment Surgery in July 2010.
 
I am very satisfied with my "work". Many people ask me why I had him completely demaled as that stopped any male/female relationship. I did this because I just felt better living with MtF TG rather than a "crossdresser". After he got me pregnant, he had fulfilled all of his male duties, that's all I wanted from him as a man.
 
We are staying married (which is possible here). After some early difficulties, my husband is a happy woman now and has fully accepted his role in the family and obediently follows my instructions. Our daughter understands the situation very well and has no problems with it.
I only allow very feminine clothes for him to wear, i.e. skirts must not be longer than three inches above the knee.

I would like to know, if there are more women here, who have gone as far as we did. I would be interesting to hear about their lives.

Edita

PART 2 (reply to an email)

Hello Nancy!

The initial reactions to his feminization were very negative. He didn't want to have anything to do with it. He even left me and our child as he thought he could make it on his own. He soon realized that he couldn't as I had secured all our money and belongings and he had nothing. He was unable to find a job because I did everything to prevent him being hired anywhere. He could not collect unemployment benefits or social welfare as the authorities told him that he needed to talk to me for support as I had enough income... So he came back... And I told him the moment he walked through the door that his male was over forever... 

I had him take off all his male clothing in the hallway before he entered any other room and had him wear a complete female outfit, from underwear, pantyhose to skirt and blouse. Then I let him in. And that's what he has been wearing since. I had all his male clothing destroyed the next day. I do not allow any pants, etc.

I know he hated it, but he gave in, he had no choice. 


When I had him put on hormones, he started some resistance again, but I reminded him what the rules were. Another critical moment was when he realized that he was not functioning as a man anymore. He dared to ask our doctor if things could be reversed but again I made sure he would understand his role in our life. 

When I decided that it was time for the finalization, he did not resist anymore. He had the operation done and, since then, things have relaxed quite a bit. He is a she now and with the help of some counselors, my husband has found her inner peace and has adjusted quite well. 

I am very pleased, it was a long way, but I (we) succeeded. 


I even had her date a man once to make her first female intimate experience. I had her report everything to me and after her first time as a woman she begged me not to have to be with a man again. If she doesn't want to enjoy her new equipment, fine with me. Although I think it's a waste, she does not have to. I know she would like to date women but I will not allow her to do this. I still date men once in a while but nothing firm as I don't want any continues relationship. She doesn't like me to do that but I shut her up by offering the man to her after I am done...

Some of my friends and family members are of the opinion that I am cruel by bringing home other men. I don't think so. Especially since my husband could do the same thing if she only wanted to. It is her decision not to do it. What do you think?

Edita


PART 3

Ms. Edita:


You are ahead of your time. As more and more (fake) males are admitting and owning up to their sissy side, and women are more andnmore comfortable taking charge, it's only a matter of time that more and more women will take charge as you have and sieze power to life a happier and more fulfilling life.

I too, as a sissy, would only dream of such a life here in the US. 


On another board some postulated that human life is female and males are simply here for reproduction and service, even as playthings for women. 

Would love to know more and more about you and your now sissy wife.


Thanks for being ahead of your time.
sissy cindy lynn

Sex Reassignment Surgery for Transgender High School Athletes?

An amazing article appeared in a Slate Blog recently. It was published 2/21/14. An excerpt follows.

"Should Sex Reassignment Surgery Be Required for Transgender High School Athletes?"

By Lance Richardson

On Wednesday [2/19/14], the Virginia High School League (VHSL) approved a motion that would seem to be spectacular news: Transgender athletes across the state can now participate in high school sports teams in accordance with their gender identity. “It is a reality that there are transgender students who are interested in participating in athletics,” Ken Tilley, executive director of the VHSL, told the Richmond Times-Dispatch. “It’s something we recognize we need to be of service to our schools and our students.”

Opening sports to transgender teens is a terrific step given the self-esteem benefits that come through inclusion and teamwork—so it’s a pity about the caveats in this case. As it stands, transgender participation in Virginia is contingent on a set of very specific conditions: that a “student-athlete has undergone sex reassignment before puberty”; or that a student-athlete has undergone sex reassignment after puberty, including hormonal therapy and “external genitalia changes and gonadectomy.” If a student-athlete ceases hormonal therapy after puberty, they will be required to switch back to the team “consistent with their birth gender.”

Wow!