Excerpted from the fabulous website: http://reneereyes.com/
The Five
Most Common Types of Transsexual Admirers:
Which one are you?
Guys attracted to transgender women have been called a variety of names – some not very complimentary. The term
“Transsexual Admirer” was born from the earlier days of transgender existence
when girls where almost always performing in clubs as a means to support
themselves. It was and is a term of respect that cast such people beyond the
realm of the tranny chaser.
Although it's progressing at a geometric rate, real-time transsexual
relationship exploration is still fairly new. Thus, beginningadmirers constitute the lion's
share of the market. This early-stage allure is typically more sexual-based
than similar female-admirers. That's because it usually takes men longer to
reach a sense of balance and acceptance of their transgender desires.
My experience is that there are five core-types
of admirers pursuing their trans-orientation issues. Most individuals
are a combination of one or more types. They relate to
almost every category. However, you'll rarely find an early-stage
admirer outside these basic parameters.
Beginning
male admirers
Almost every beginning male
admirer is primarily drawn to trans-females on a sexual plane. Their approach
might be to first befriend such a prospective lover before attempting a roll
in-the-hay. However, a varied approach isn't a root change in desire: it's just
a difference in style.
Almost every male admirer is drawn to that unique blend of masculinity and femininity that makes up the presentation of transgenders. Their exact equation
for how much of each component is known as their personal
recipe for a trans-dream partner.
Type 1: The latent
bisexual
This individual fits the
old-school model for transgender attraction. In our
world of increasing freedom of sexual expression - they're less common. It's
just not that big of a deal anymore to privately admit gay or bisexual leanings.
These individuals exhibit strong bisexual tendencies but are uncomfortable
exploring those leanings with a traditional male. They see a pre-operative
trans-female as the ideal bridge. The trans-woman tends to represent an ideal
middle ground - the smooth, soft femininity of a woman coupled with the
intensity of a man - among other things.
Type 2: The timid
bottom
Even as a growing number of
men are confident exploring bisexual or gay fantasies, there's still plenty of
them that can't readily admit their need to assume the traditionally submissive role in a sexual union. Nothing tends to offer these individuals
more intensity via fantasy - than the thought of a sexually submissive role
with a stunningly beautiful non-operative transsexual female. The bottom line?
These men are most attracted to feminine beauty and being on
the bottom.
Unfortunately, this is perhaps the most challenging admirer persona when it
comes to ever
discovering sustained, real-life satisfaction. Why's that?
Because very few t-girls sexually identify as "tops".
Real-life associations will probably be some combination of professional
escorts and trans-pornography.
Type 3: The latent
crossdresser
The next group is the latent cross dresser. These men are actually t-girl's at
heart, but for whatever reasons...be it their lifestyle, their physique, their
access to appropriate cross-dressing tips or transformation services, or their
fears...they have not - and may never cross the line of full
feminization. They'll usually wear lingerie on occasion or at least get very turned
on by the thought of doing so.
Additionally, men who fantasize about being submissive to a t-girl usually fall
into this category. They often dream of being forced into
femme - as a vehicle for letting go of their masculinity - and not being held
personally accountable for that action. Their attraction to transgenders
completes this vision. Thus, their intimate desires often equate to a vicarious
experience of being their trans-female lover.
A lot of beginners fall into this category. It's very common:
even a quasi-normal fantasy for straight males.
So what's your chances of finding an attractive trans-female that wants to
feminize you? They're almost nil. If a gal is drawn to the lesbian scene...why
would she chase a neophyte in a skirt? Female-female connections are about a
lot more than clothing. If she wants a man...she usually wants no competition
about who is the girl in such a union. The only exception to this rule? If
you're a very feminine, young smooth-bodied guy and a gal finds your
potential female-image appealing.
You can either learn how to transform yourself / pay someone to do it for
you....or - you can pay an escort to humor your desires.
Type 4: The
emerging trans-girl
A more extreme version of the
latent cross dresser is the emerging t-girl. These men are more in tune with
their feminine persona. Some, are even more feminine at heart than the
trans-girls they encounter. Their biggest hesitation with progressing with a fully
feminine transformation is usually a fear they could never look
remotely feminine.
Fortunately, that's changing.
With easy access to transformation tips and services on the
internet, this group tends to evolve and develop their alternative feminine
persona much faster than ever before.
These men are not usually quite as intent about a sexual encounter with a
trans-women. They'll often profess a desire to date or even wed a transgender
female from the onset. There's a deep-rooted need within themselves that's not
being met. They usually think a committed relationship with a trans-woman would
fulfill this requirement.
FYI...it won't.
Type 5: The Eroticist
The final group among beginning male admirers is what I call the eroticist. You might
even term these men as sexual fanatics. Simply stated - they love just
about everything that adds zing to a sexual encounter.
Trans-females represent some pretty unique real estate. If variety is the spice
of life, these gals can serve up a whole pantry of sexual flavorings.
Most of these men exhibit some bisexual tendencies but prefer female lovers.
Notably, they're often very oral with women in their lovemaking. These
individuals are usually not seeking any sort of long term
trans-relationships. In fact, they typically get bored with one girl very
quickly - as variety's a big part of their satisfaction.
Intermediate
& advanced male admirers
While almost every beginner
is first drawn to transgenders on a purely sexual plane, some men develop a
much deeper connection. Continued real-time experience is the most common
precursor to this evolution. The man who continues to be drawn to the
transgender lifestyle after having already explored his earliest
trans-fantasies comes to know the person beneath all that
make-up. During that process, this man discovers something special - about
himself.
Within this realm of more experienced admirers, you'll usually find a couple of
camps:
- Tranny Chasers
- The Serial
First-Timer
- The eroticist plus
- The transgender
partner
Experienced
Tranny Chasers
Experienced tranny chasers have been a big part of the admirer community for a long time. These guys are all about NSA fun with transsexual women. They’re not looking for any sort
of relationship of the heart. Many have been doing this for lots of years - often because
they’re married.
The Serial
First-Timer
Experienced transsexual admirer’s learn some transsexual women prefer a guy
who has never before dated a transgender. Thus, some of them create a fictional
story about this “being their first time” with every new transsexual they meet.
They leverage their prior experience - telling her what they think she probably
wants to hear.
The problem with this approach? If you ever meet a gal you really like she’ll
eventually discover your game - and that will end the connection.
The
Eroticist plus
The second type of advanced
admirer is what I call the eroticist plus. These men are first
attracted to the erotic nature of a trans-female but in that process
find themselves with a more formidable devotion to transgender relationships.
Notably, these men are often highly independent thinkers.
Because they're more experienced in transgender relations, they'll often form a
long-term and special bond with one or more trans-women. Alas, they're usually
not interested in a totally devoted union since their core basis is still primarily
eroticism. Circumstances can also inhibit their degree of commitment. They
might be already married or face severe limitations upon their lifestyle.
I'd venture to guess these men are nature's equivalent to the growing number of
more experienced part-time gals in the trans-community. As the number of these
t-girls continues to grow, so does some of their sexual palettes - including a
desire for masculine male lovers.
The Transgender Partner
The world's pretty much in
agreement that for every action in our universe, there's an equal and opposite
reaction. In my opinion, the transgender partner represents the masculine
equivalent to the male-to-female transsexual. They usually began their
attraction based upon sexual leanings. However, almost immediately these men
move beyond that realm. Like their transgender brethren, they first resisted
their urges, then mustered the courage to fully explore their desires, then
subsequently languished over them, studied them and thoroughly contemplated them.
In the end? They come to realize: they're stuck with this wiring.
As with their transsexual equivalents, there's wide variety in terms of how far
they'll actually go towards making these preferences mesh into their
everyday life. Lots of factors influence these decisions and how quickly they
occur, including:
Notably, it appears the number of transgender partners is growing in
almost direct proportion to the number of full-time transsexual women. It'll
take time for the process of effectively connecting with ideal partners to
improve. However, the natural evolution by both components as a result of
heightened connectivity and awareness from the internet is worth noting.
Which
Transsexual Admirer are You?
Why is it so important to determine where you are? Each group
tends to have different desires in a t-relationship than the other - both
personally and sexually. These unique desires equate to different types of
t-girls that are most compatible with your wishes.
Only you know what you really feel. Thus,
lying about those desires to yourself will cost you dearly in the pleasure
department.
Part of the challenge in finding a quality transsexual is that you've got tough
competition, namely - genetic females and other trans-girls. Alas, most
trans-girls are first attracted to women, then other transsexuals. Many are not
interested in a sexual relationship of any sort with a
masculine man.
